Have you ever had the experience of being in a situation whether it was a friendship, a relationship, a situationship or even found yourself in a particular setting whether formal or informal in which you looked back upon the situation and realized what you could have done better to either improve on a choice you made or yourself personally? I'm more than sure that 100/100 of us have been there, more times than we've actually kept count of. What is it about us as people that causes us to take for granted the people and opportunities that have bestowed their time and energies on us only for us to not realize in those moments what value the people and or opportunities had brought to our lives? Are we so much as future oriented that we can't stop for a moment in time to take a look at whats right at our very own eyes. We squawk and complain about why certain things we pined and prayed for haven't come to forewishing without having taken the time to realize that what we wanted was there all along and might have even been the better opportunity but we were too focused on this idea of where we wanted to be and what it LOOKED like for us on a surface level, that by the time to warp speed passed what was already a great opportunity, only to get a close up and personal view and to realize this new and "better" opportunity was nothing at all as though we imagined it to be, in fact, maybe even the phrase, " all that glitters isn't gold" might have even come to mind a time or two or three....and it's at that moment your hindsight kicks in and causes you to realize that what you were initially blessed with all along is no where to be found and has now become a lost opportunity. So whether you're starting at an entry level position at a job that could provide excellent experience and you quit that opportunity to work for a company that may pay more but you hate going to it everyday, can't stand your boss and it's no where on their radar to bother writing you a letter of recommendation for your next career path or youre picking a college or grad program to attend that everyone knows its name over the the smaller lesser known program that doesn't make you feel like just another number and actually provides you with all the resources to succeed or even picking the guy or girl who looks good on paper over the one that will nourish your soul....whatever your option is between, be sure to always pick the one that adds more value to your spirit, heart and life so that when you look back on it, hindsight won't be what was 20 20 but the present moment you are in will be!